As you open and receive the flow of self-love; when you look at the past you feel compassion or love; when you look at those things in your current reality that bother you; you look at them with compassion. When you look towards that future that you seek to have you begin to understand that that acceptance and love for who you are and what this life has created for you is what will get you to that place you seek to be.
So, self-love is the release of judgment, is the release of expectations, it’s the release of feeling not good enough. Open your heart. Open every aspect of yourself and let the flow of love be within you. As you do so you expand your consciousness and you are that reflective pillar of light.