This is a big topic because the Goddess spoke about it at length. Here’s another vibration:
For that question, I don’t know how many times we have cleared this, and even right now, there is something in many, many, many of you that just says, “I just want what I want”. What this is doing is causing you to hold even tighter to what’s not working and if it’s a disappointment, an ongoing disappointment, you just keep strangling what you want with this intense desire, sadness or frustration. It’s just pulling it and wrapping it up so it is simply not available to you. Again, allow love to come in.