There are times when people have their story. They identify with actions or experiences that they have had in this life, and then they stay within that going around and around and around. Everything that has happened within your life has its purpose; they are all learning experiences.
When you remain fixated on one small portion of your life you are getting into that tunnel vision and not realizing that there is so much more available to you. I would therefore invite you to consider; am I in that narrow perspective or the broad?