Have you ever had a relationship that you perhaps stayed within too long and it pulled you down?
Understand that any of those destructive relationships can either be reprogrammed into something where you are filled with love and you look at them with love, or you can simply let them go. There are many relationships that you will choose not to let go. However, as you change your own perspective and you send that, and you act through that vibration with these individuals, the relationship will change. You are not controlling anybody else. However, you are honoring and respecting yourself which will then be reflected in the relationship. This is this is releasing control. This is accepting who you are.